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Possums Toddler Sleep 101


  • Introduction to this brief & simple section of the Possums Toddler Sleep Program
  • Key things to know about toddlers' sleep
  • How much sleep does your toddler need?
  • Is it normal for toddlers to wake in the night?
  • Night waking in toddlers - how much is too much?
  • Toddlers' body clock
  • Toddlers' sleep pressure
  • Toddlers need sensory nourishment
  • Toddlers' bedtime
  • Feeds and cuddles help toddlers sleep
  • Key steps to help with toddlers' sleep
  • Have your toddler wake up at the same time each day
  • Problems with toddler day naps
  • Using sleep pressure to help toddler sleep
  • Active evenings help with toddlers' sleep
  • Problems with toddler night-time sleep

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Toddlers' sleep pressure

Dr Pamela Douglas4th of Oct 202323rd of May 2024

toddler sleeps face down on rug

This page is part of a collection of short articles called Brief & simple, which together make up a quick summary of The Possums Sleep Program in plain language. For comprehensive information and support, please go to The essentials section of The Possums Sleep Program, and begin to work your way through the program's online text and videos.

The second way sleep is controlled is by sleep pressure.

People might tell you that sleep is controlled by sleep associations like always putting your toddler in the cot to sleep, but that is not actually true: it's high sleep pressure that sends toddlers (and all humans) to sleep.

Sleep will happen wherever your toddler is and whatever youre doing, once the sleep pressure is high enough.

Acknowledgements

I'm grateful to Professor Sophie Havighurst, Ros June, and Caroline Ma at Mindful, The University of Melbourne, for their feedback on the articles in the Brief & simple section of The Possums Sleep Program. They helped me keep the language plain and the concepts as accessible as possible. For comprehensive information and support, please go to The essentials section of The Possums Sleep Program, and begin to work your way through the program's online text and videos.

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This page is part of a collection of short articles called Brief & simple, which together make up a quick summary of The Possums Sleep Program in plain language. For comprehensive information and support, please go to The essentials section of The Possums Sleep Program, and begin to work your way through the program's online text and videos.

Toddlers have a powerful need for lots of experience that they can see, smell, taste and feel in their bodies. We call this 'sensory experience' or 'sensory nourishment'.

Toddlers will cry and fuss or dial up in low sensory environments because their sensory needs aren't being…

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